Yes, you’re a modern woman and happy that your partner does his share of the cleaning and straightening up, whether it falls into the “yours, mine, or ours” category, so you’re Not. Going. To. Mention the fact that when he put the towels away, he shoved them onto the linen closet shelf in a messy heap. Nope, not gonna mention it. And cleaning out your car? Swoon…that is, until you get halfway to wherever it is you’re going and realize that you don’t have that thing you need—that thing that was in the car—because of said cleaning.