The 36 Best Valentine’s Day Gifts for Him of 2023

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Finding the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for your boyfriend or husband can be a challenge, even if you’ve been with your partner for years. You have to take into account what his tastes are, what he could use an upgrade of, what will be meaningful to him, and how long you two have been together.

To determine the best Valentine’s Day gift for him, we researched dozens of options while considering factors like personalization, price point, quality, and usefulness. We also spoke to gifting expert Emily Forrest, director of communications at Zola, to get her tips on what to look for in a Valentine’s Day gift for him. “February 14th and 365 days a year, think about a gift he'll enjoy and then go one extra step to choose something he'll treasure,” she says.

Apotheke

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This best-selling candle comes in a minimally packaged, matte black vessel and has a mix of smokey, spicy fragrances that will turn any room in his home into a cozy oasis. Oud, cedarwood, sandalwood, and amber come together to create this charcoal-esque scent, and it’s made with a long-lasting (60-70 hour burn time) soy blend wax. Once he’s done with the candle, he can reuse the jar for toothbrushes, shaving accessories, or pencils and pens.

Price at time of publish: $67

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Whether you and your partner have been together a long time or are in a new relationship, you’ll get hours of fun with this game, which mixes silly challenges with in-depth questions. It’s a great activity for date night or just hanging out at home, and there’s also an option to play with other couples. The set includes 200 cards so you won’t easily run out of cards to pull and discuss. Even if you’ve known your partner for years, this game can help you connect over new things you learn about each other.

Price at time of publish: $25

Gold Belly

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Gift him this full meal, which is meant to be savored together, and he’ll be thanking you for months. The meal includes two lobster tails, one dozen mussels, eight shrimp, eight sea scallops, and two ears of corn that are all drenched in an herbed lemon butter sauce. It arrives frozen, so all you have to do is thaw it, plate it, and enjoy it! Gift it with a nice bottle of champagne if you’re feeling fancy—after all, you’ll be enjoying the meal too. Want to add in dessert, too? There’s an option to add handmade whoopie pies if you’re ready for something sweet.

Price at time of publish: $120

Huckberry

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Now he can drink whiskey or bourbon on the rocks—literally—with this set of two glasses. They depict famous peaks around the world, and you can choose from ten mountains, including Mt. Everest, Denali, and Grand Canyon. This is an especially perfect gift if he’s also into hiking or considers himself outdoorsy.

Price at time of publish: $30

Amazon

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This sumptuous and spicy cologne evokes memories of a romantic date night, regardless of when he sprays it. Key notes of pink pepper, rum absolute, and tobacco leaf absolute create a warm and woody scent that will be a treat for both of you. Whether he’s adding to his existing lineup of cologne or in dire need of a go-to signature scent, ‘Replica’ Jazz Club is an elegant gift idea for Valentine’s Day.

Price at the time of publish: $144

Etsy

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If you’re searching for a romantic and sentimental gift without the traditional pink fanfare associated with Valentine’s Day, opt for this customizable constellation print from Etsy. You can add a personal touch with your names, a title, a location, and a date (like your anniversary or first kiss), which matches the corresponding star map. We also like that it comes in multiple options, including unframed prints, framed prints, and digital downloads. Pro tip: The latter is ideal for a last-minute gift since you can print it out yourself.

Price at time of publish: From $20

Atlas Coffee Club

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If he can’t function before his first cup of coffee, he’ll love this coffee club subscription that delivers fresh coffee beans from around the world. Not only does the monthly subscription include delicious coffee, it also comes with a postcard from the country of origin, recommendations for brewing, and a tasting profile. Before you know it, he’ll be a caffeine connoisseur! Gift this with a personalized mug and a French press if you really want to tie the gift together.

Price at time of publish: $60 for 3 months

Mark & Graham

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Have a golf fan in your life? This personalized golf ball set comes with 12 monogrammed golf balls, plus a dozen tees and plenty of pencils for keeping score. He can keep all of his golf balls neatly organized in the personalized display case instead of at the bottom of a bag or scattered around the house, and there’s even an option to purchase a refill of 12 more balls once he runs out.

Price at time of publish: $99

Aplós

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Is your Valentine a mocktail enthusiast? If so, he’ll love this non-alcoholic spirit duo from Aplos. The Calme and Arise spirits feature functional botanical ingredients like broad-spectrum hemp, adaptogens, yuzu, basil, dandelion, and lemon verbena. Plus, the minimalist glass bottles make for a stunning addition to any non-alcoholic bar cart or countertop.

Price at time of publish: $88

Golden Horn Wallet Personalized Handwriting Wallet

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If his wallet is hanging on by a thread, consider getting him this genuine leather upgrade. Not only is this wallet wonderful quality as-is, but there’s an option to add personalization to it, giving it a Valentine’s Day-appropriate spin.

Add a sweet message to the interior of the wallet in your own handwriting by sending the vendor a scanned image, or choose a font from their options. You can also have a monogram stamped to the exterior of the wallet. It has eight credit card slots, one driver's license slot, two billfolds, and a coin pocket, so he can keep everything in his wallet neatly organized.

Price at time of publish: From $40

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Great for the guy who loves plants but admittedly has a black thumb, this heart-shaped succulent is easy to take care of and a cute ode to Valentine’s Day without being cheesy. This low-maintenance plant only needs to be watered every two to three weeks and requires bright light to thrive. Mini in size, the Hoya heart is only about 2-3 inches tall and comes in a white ceramic planter.

Price at time of publish: $40

Etsy

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This DIY whiskey making kit is a fun way for him to try his hand at creating infused whiskey from the comfort of his own kitchen. It comes with everything he needs, except the alcohol—two prep bottles for infusing, six stainless steel whiskey ice cubes, labels for his creations, and 12 vials of infusion ingredients to experiment with. These include six vials of signature whiskey wood chips (think: dark chocolate, vanilla); birds eye chili; chai; cocoa beans; coffee; orange peel; and cinnamon.

Price at time of publish: $70

Bombas

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No more cold feet! These cozy slippers have grippers on the bottom so he won’t slip and slide around the house when he’s wearing them. They’re part sock, part slipper, and come in two colorways and three sizes. The sole is slightly cushioned for added comfort and they’re lined with a super-soft material. They’re especially useful for bringing on trips thanks to their lighter weight and handy carrying pouch.

Price at time of publish: $48

Etsy

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Perfect for the audiophile, this record/plaque (meant for display only, not actually a record!) can be personalized with any song you want as well as a photo of you and your partner. You can also choose to include a wooden base for display, which is an extra cost but certainly worth the money—unless you’d rather frame it. It also includes a QR code so he can scan and listen to the song whenever he wants. Consider using a song that has a special meaning to both of you: a first dance, a song that was playing when you first met, or just something from a band you both love—the possibilities are endless!

Price at time of publish: From $50

Uncommon Goods

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This racy version of Truth or Dare has 50 double-sided pickup sticks for a spicy date night. Think of it as a good way to change things up from your usual routine—it may make you blush at first, but you’ll both end up having a lot of fun. If you want something even naughtier, Uncommon Goods also carries this Kinky Truth or Dare. Get ready to spice things up!

Price at time of publish: $15

Parachute

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This super-soft robe comes in seven colors and ranges from sizes XS-3X. It’s made with four-ply gauze, making it light without being see-through. Just as comfy as it is stylish, Parachute suggests sizing up if your guy would prefer a bit of an oversized fit. It’s made with OEKO-TEX certified cotton, which ensures that it was produced without any substances that are harmful to humans, and was also manufactured responsibly. It’s such a great robe you’ll have a hard time not buying one for yourself, too!

Price at time of publish: $109

Burke Decor

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If he’s picky about his toiletries, he’ll love this kit that’s perfect for on-the-go travel. It comes with shaving oil, face wash, cologne, and face oil so he can make sure his skin is properly moisturized post-shave. Plus, it’s all packaged in a handy dopp kit so he can upgrade from his current toiletries bag if it’s not in the best shape.

Forrest says that upgrades are a surefire gift idea. “It's creative because it's likely a gift idea right under his nose but one he hasn't thought of,” she says. “Take an inventory of what he has and loves but probably wouldn't upgrade for himself.”

Price at time of publish: $35

JerkyGent

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A jerky subscription is a unique gift idea that is sure to satisfy him when he gets snacky—and three subscription levels allow you to tailor it according to his preferences. The first level includes two bags for $16, the second includes four bags for $28, and the highest level includes 8 bags for $55. You can also choose spice level and flavor preference so you know he’ll be getting jerky that’s specified to his tastes (literally) each month.

Price at time of publish: From $16 per month

Lululemon

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Although they’re built for training, these joggers are also great for everyday wear, whether he’s hanging around the house or out running errands. They’re abrasion-resistant and water-repellent for ultimate comfort while exercising, anc come with four zippered pockets so he can securely store a key, card, or anything else he needs. With six color options and inclusive sizing that runs from XS-XXXL, these joggers are a great practical, high-quality gift to give your S.O. this Valentine’s Day.

Price at time of publish: $128

Amazon

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Whether he’s an avid traveler or athlete, the Briggs & Riley Large Travel Duffle is a multipurpose gift that can transition from a romantic weekend getaway to a grueling gym session in no time. The PVC-lined pocket will separate wet swimsuits and musty clothes, while the zippered compartments, mesh pockets, and ID tag keeps all his essentials organized on the go.

Price at time of publish: $249

Rustico What I Love About You Leather Journal

Etsy

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This book is a romantic way to remind your partner what you love about him. With lined pages for personalized notes and 50 prompts to fill in, he’ll love revisiting this book year after year. There are six leather colors to choose from and the pages are made from heavyweight, high-quality paper with a rough edge for a rustic vibe. It’s also handmade, with hand-bound pages and an elastic band closure that can also be used to bookmark certain pages.

Price at time of publish: $35

Amazon

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Gift him the closest thing to backstage passes to his favorite band with the Marshall Uxbridge Voice. The compact speaker can nestle on his bookshelf or entertainment center without taking up too much space—all while producing balanced, immersive audio that sounds just like a live concert. This speaker can connect with Bluetooth, WiFi, Spotify, AirPlay, and Alexa for streamlined listening.

Price at time of publish: $220

KingsleyLeather Personalised Leather Cufflinks

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If he goes to a lot of formal events or is just a fan of a good pair of cufflinks, he’ll love this personalized pair. Made of genuine leather and stainless steel, they can be customized with his monogram which adds a personal and unique touch to any suit. If you think he’d prefer a color other than brown, consider getting him a classic black or tan leather set, which this vendor also offers. As an added bonus, they come packaged in a gift box so you don’t have to worry about getting additional packaging for them—just attach a card and you’re good to go!

Price at time of publish: $71

Artifact Uprising

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Celebrate special moments by creating a small photo book (7-by-7 inches) from Artifact Uprising. Favorite memories from the past year or a special trip will fit perfectly in this album, which has a premium linen cover and thick pages made of high-quality paper that won’t bend. When it’s open the pages lie flat for easy viewing, and are a perfect addition to his coffee table or bookshelf. Six sophisticated fabric colors and three foil options give you plenty of ways to personalize the look of this album.

Price at time of publish: From $62

Etsy

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We love this adorable custom map, which has your names, a coordinate point of your choosing, and a date. It’s a great way to commemorate a special moment in time—whether it be the place you got engaged or married, the spot where you had your first date, or the location of your first home together. The map is printed on archival paper in a heart shape, with a small red heart over the exact address or coordinates you provide. Keep in mind that the custom map does not include a frame, so if you want to upgrade your gift with that final, polished touch, order ahead of time and purchase a frame separately.

Price at time of publish: $22

Mejuri

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Modeled after the classic dog chain necklace, this is an upgraded version with a simpler twist. Choose from titanium, sterling silver, or gold and personalize it with up to three letters, free of charge. This chain tag necklace is meant to be lived in, outliving trends and made with materials that will wear beautifully.

Price at time of publish: From $148

Minted

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If he loves puzzles he’ll appreciate this custom version, which turns a favorite photo into a 252-piece puzzle. Not only will it provide a fun activity to work on together, but you can also glue it down to heavy paper or cardstock when you’re done, frame it, and add it to your gallery wall. If you choose to take it back apart when you’re done, the two of you can enjoy doing this puzzle every year—on Valentine’s Day, an anniversary, a birthday, or around the holidays. It comes in a patterned muslin bag so he won’t lose any pieces and it can be left on display thanks to the pretty keepsake box.

Price at time of publish: $42

Framebridge

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Let Framebridge do all the heavy lifting! For a quick gift that he’ll love, just upload a favorite photo of the two of you, choose a frame color and style, and they’ll take care of the rest. This is a great deal for the price, as custom framing and matting can often run a couple hundred dollars.

The frame itself measures 10-by-12 inches, but fits a 7-by-5 inch photo thanks to matting, which elevates the look. There are 12 frame styles to choose from, including a glazed royal blue for a pop of color, a traditional antiqued silver, and a streamlined simple walnut. The turnaround time for this personalized gift is quite quick as well, so it’s a great option if you’re in need of a last-minute gift.

Price at time of publish: $75

Ilgar Leather Personalized Brass Compass

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This brass compass can be customized with a monogram, an engraved note in your own handwriting, or an engraved note using a font. Plus, you can have the vendor engrave the front or back of the outside of the compass, or the interior. This compass is fully functional and comes with a free leather case to store it in. Whether he uses it for camping or just for displaying at home, it’s a thoughtful Valentine’s Day gift that will mean a lot to him.

Price at time of publish: From $58

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For the guy who already has it all, opt for the gift of a memorable experience with the help of an Airbnb Gift Card. With an eclectic range of cozy or luxurious stays all over the globe, he can upgrade his next ski trip or couple’s vacation with a few clicks of a button. Plus, the funds uploaded on his card don’t expire, so there’s no strict timeline for planning his trip.

Price at time of publish: From $25

Tie Bar

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This sweet and simple tie bar will add polish to any suit he wears, and it’s under $20 to boot! The shiny silver accessory comes in four style choices: narrow, modern, traditional, and classic. The differences are mainly to do with the length and silhouette, so you can choose exactly the right shape and style that will work for him, ranging from 1-2 inches.

Price at time of publish: $15

David's Tea

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Whether he’s trying to give up coffee for 2023 or he’s just a fan of tea, he’ll enjoy trying out these 12 unique flavors (and hopefully sharing them with you, too!). The sample-sized tins include blends like Chocolate Earl Grey, Blueberry Jam, Matcha Ice Cream, Salted Caramel Oolong, and more. Each sampler flavor has two servings, so he can find his favorite for buying full-size. Round this present out with a cool mug, scoop, and tea strainer for a home run in the gift department.

Price at time of publish: $29

Brass Monkey

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This cute tangram puzzle comes in the shape of a heart, but the nine pieces can be moved around to create 42 other shapes. He can challenge his brain by using the included puzzle book that shows the final silhouette of the 42 additional shapes—it’s up to him to figure out how those silhouettes were made using the nine pieces. Another bonus: The box it comes in is so nice you won’t need to wrap it—just add a bow and enclose a card.

Price at time of publish: $20

Falling For You Personalized Coupleâs Game

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Similar to everyone’s favorite stacking game but with a romantic twist, this tower-building challenge prompts the player to read aloud the block that they pull from the stack. The prompts vary, with some examples being: “Describe each other in three words” and “What do you wish I said more often?”, along with “dares” like “Slow dance with your partner.” It’s a simple way to bond and have fun while playing a game, and maybe unlock something new about your S.O. The 54-piece game is handmade in Connecticut and made of smooth wood in varying shades.

Price at time of publish: From $45

Gold Belly

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Holy cannoli! This tower of deliciousness is a great Valentine’s Day gift for the guy who loves nachos but also has a sweet tooth. The kit includes everything he needs to create the most epic, Insta-worthy dessert “nacho” tower ever—and building it is a fun activity to do together, too.

Inside the kit is a mix of sweet and savory ingredients, like mascarpone cream, cannoli chips, chocolate toffee pieces, mini pretzels, and whiskey dark chocolate sauce. It also comes with Guy’s signature trash can mold so he can build the layers of his “nachos” in it, flip it over onto a plate, and drizzle it with chocolate sauce.

Price at time of publish: $90

Mark & Graham

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Has he had the same old tattered throw blanket since college? If it’s time for an upgrade, this personalized blanket will definitely improve the look of his sofa or the end of his bed. Available in four neutral colors (navy, camel, gray, ivory), this super soft cotton throw is cozy and great for a lazy day binging his favorite show. Mark & Graham has lots of monogram styles to choose from, plus 23 thread colors—so you can even gift him a blanket that has his favorite team’s colors for extra brownie points.

Price at time of publish: $139

Questions You Might Ask

What are some creative Valentine’s Day gift ideas for men?

Forrest recommends thinking closely about what he enjoys, and then choosing something extra special that correlates to that interest. “Wine or spirits drinker? Purchase a birth year vintage or a bottle from a location you two have been together. Does he love to cook? Think about specialty ingredients or spices that he normally wouldn't purchase. Very into taking care of himself and his skin? Get him a certificate for a facial and enough to pick out some new products,” she says. “The most special and creative gifts go one extra step in thought from usual to unexpected.”

Another suggestion from Forrest is tickets. “For the guy who has everything, or just doesn't need anything for Valentine's Day, tickets to a comedy club, to a book signing, to an art fair, or really to anything are always a good idea.”

What should you get for Valentine’s Day if you’re in a new relationship?

If you're in a new relationship, Forrest suggests keeping it light and fun. “It doesn't have to be a physical keepsake,” she says. “Try to score a hard-to-get dinner reservation for the near future. Or, book a fun class together like a cooking class or a pottery class where you two can actually keep getting to know each other. Valentine's Day does have a lot of pressure attached to it, so planning an experience that you would love to do regardless of the holiday is a great way to go, rather than worrying he won't make the best-ever excited face opening the gift.”

How do you choose a more thoughtful gift?

Forrest reminds us that the gift doesn’t have to be over-the-top or super expensive to impress him. “The vibe should just be ‘I saw this and thought of you,’” she says. “The key is to simply pay attention. Write down a note on your phone when an idea for a gift hits you.”

Planning in advance is also crucial. “The other key is to order a gift far enough in advance. Don't miss every shipping deadline and then run to the bodega for chocolates on February 13. Plan for it, think about it, and keep it simple.”

Take Our Word for It

This article was written by Hannah Baker, a freelance writer and editor with a decade of experience researching and writing about home products. She’s written about products for Martha Stewart Living, Better Homes and Gardens, Apartment Therapy, Brides, MyDomaine, SHOP Today, and Drew and Jonathan Reveal, to name a few. To make this list, she considered a variety of types of gifts and took into account versatility, cost, shipping, and quality. She also spoke with gifting expert Emily Forrest, director of communications at Zola.