23 Books for Graduates That’ll Impart All the Advice They Need

Each one of these picks will inspire, motivate and problem-solve for grads entering The Real World.


Advice From My 80-Year-Old Self, by Susan O’Malley

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What advice would your future 80-year-old self give to you today? That’s the question artist Susan O’Malley, who tragically died at age 38 before this charming book’s publication, asked more than 100 people in the San Francisco Bay Area. From an 8-year-old boy’s admonition to “listen to your mom, be friendly to people, don’t pull people’s hair” to an 85-year-old woman’s counsel to “stay in touch with your friends,” everyone, regardless of age, can take something away from this uplifting work.

To buy: $13, amazon.com.


The ABCs of Adulthood, by Deborah Copaken and Randy Polumbo

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It’s time to relearn your ABCs. Journalist and photographer Deborah Copaken delivers 26 genuine and funny pieces of advice set alongside beautiful street art. These little doses of wisdom remind readers to move past Anger, avoid sympathy card faux pas at Funerals, and to make sure to get plenty of Zzzs. Practical and pretty to look at—it’s a win-win.

To buy: $12, amazon.com.


The Power of Habit, by Charles Duhigg

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Using science and compelling anecdotes, New York Times journalist Charles Duhigg offers a fascinating look at the habits we make and how we can change them to be happier, healthier, and more successful. With the days of pulling all-nighters and eating pizza at 2 a.m. (hopefully) behind your new grad, there’s no time like the present to get into a good routine.

To buy: $9, amazon.com.


How to Cook Everything: The Basics, by Mark Bittman

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A spinoff of the New York Times food writer’s classic cookbook, this tutorial breaks down all the essentials of cooking: how to chop veggies, roast meat, cook pasta, and make simple meals with natural, fresh ingredients. Bittman even outlines the necessary equipment you’ll need to furnish your kitchen. A must for any new cook.

To buy: $20, amazon.com.


Whatever You Are, Be a Good One, by Lisa Congdon

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Taking its title from a famous Abraham Lincoln quote, this beautifully hand-lettered book shares 100 inspirational quotations from great minds such as Oscar Wilde, George Eliot, and Walt Whitman. Revisit this colorful read whenever you need a pick-me-up—or a push—to get out there and make the most of your day.

To buy: $10, amazon.com.


On the Move: A Life, by Oliver Sacks

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The late neurologist made his career studying the intricacies and quirks of the human mind. Before his death in August 2015, he turned his lens on himself, exploring the not-so-direct path he took along the way. Pit stops include setting a weightlifting record in California, his biker days, drug addiction, and falling in love at age 77. Be inspired by an extraordinary life well lived.

To buy: $10, amazon.com.


Adulting: How to Become a Grown-up In 468 Easy(ish) Steps, by Kelly Williams Brown

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Hilarious and relatable, the author of adultingblog.com shares her tips for life after college. Skip through the chapters as needed (e.g., turn to “Domesticity” for advice on finding and cleaning an apartment or “Love” to learn how to argue effectively with your partner), but be ready to jot down some very helpful advice. 

To buy: $9, amazon.com.


I Just Graduated... Now What?, by Katherine Schwarzenegger

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Don’t let the bombardment of “What’s Next?” get to you. Schwarzenegger interviewed notable names (Eva Longoria, John Legend, and Serena Williams to name a few) to get their takes on navigating the bumpy roads of post-collegiate life. Their honest advice is a helpful reminder that you aren’t alone.

To buy: $15, amazon.com.


The Real Simple Guide to Real Life, by the editors of Real Simple

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From salary negotiations to apartment decorating, the real world is filled with a lot of new experiences. With this book, your student can tackle (and prepare for) any hurdle that’ll come up in the home or the office, with timeless-yet-practical advice from the editors of Real Simple. After reading a few pages, you might want this on your shelf, too.

To buy: $17, barnesandnoble.com.


What Do I Do If…? By Eric Grzymkowski

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From an attack by killer bees to a clogged toilet to a forgotten anniversary, this tiny book offers solutions for any disaster your grad might encounter when finally out on his or her own. Each sticky situation is marked by how likely it is to happen, how easy it is to prevent, and whether or not you need to respond quickly.

To buy: $15, amazon.com.


The Road to Character, by David Brooks

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New York Times columnist David Brooks uses this book to distinguish “resume virtues”—skills that might look good to an employer—from “eulogy virtues”—morals and values that help us grow and form relationships. He encourages everyone to focus on the latter, and uses anecdotes, interviews, and psychology to give readers the tools to develop a more “moral character.”

To buy: $17, amazon.com.


Way More Than Luck 

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This book has 14 transcribed commencement speeches that encourage recent grads to be creative, be brave, and make their marks on the world. Speakers include Nora Ephron, Ira Glass, Tom Wolfe, and David Foster Wallace, and the book also illustrates the most inspirational quotes from each address.

To buy: $18, amazon.com.


Do Over, by Jon Acuff

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First-time employees need the right tools and resources to make the most of their desk jobs. Do Over goes over four inevitable transitions: a career ceiling (when you feel stuck), a career bump (maybe you lose your job), a career jump (a possible promotion), and a career opportunity (usually unexpected and scary). This practical advice will help grads take advantage of all four transitions, and succeed in any field.

To buy: $15, amazon.com.


The Opposite of Loneliness, by Marina Keegan

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The eponymous posthumous essay that spurred this collection circulated quickly amongst college graduates in 2012 because it hit a nerve—everyone was looking for a way to stay connected to their friends when they went off alone in the world after leaving school. Keegan’s work—both essay and fiction—is a must-read for all young writers.

To buy: $11, amazon.com.


Yes Please, by Amy Poehler

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Poehler’s funny, honest memoir is filled with nuggets of advice all grads can use, with chapters organized into three sections: “Say Whatever You Want,” “Do Whatever You Like,” and “Be Whoever You Are.” While the move from college can seem intimidating, Poehler’s words remind everyone that the most important thing to do in life is to have fun.

To buy: $12, amazon.com.


Edmund Unravels, by Andrew Kolb

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Consider this children’s book to be 2015’s version of Oh, the Places You’ll Go! Edmund, an adorable ball of yarn, sets off to explore the world. He meets interesting people and visits exciting places, but ultimately, finds that he can’t head out into the world alone without a little support from his family.

To buy: $14, amazon.com.


Very Good Lives, by J.K. Rowling

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Rowling’s famous Harvard commencement address has been transcribed into a pocket-sized book of wisdom and inspiration that all graduates will want on their shelves. Rowling encourages all graduates to be creative and embrace failure in order to find post-graduate success.

To buy: $9, amazon.com.


Lean In for Graduates, by Sheryl Sandberg

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Sandberg’s Lean In offered valuable advice for women who had spent years feeling frustrated in the workplace, but this graduation edition is targeted at young women who have yet to begin. Her guide equips them with the tools necessary to negotiate, participate, and lead in whatever job they land.

To buy: $14, amazon.com.


The Defining Decade, by Meg Jay, PhD

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This book explores the 20-something years with personal stories from the author’s clients, and scientific data to explain how the body and mind works during this crucial developmental period. For any millennial who feels overwhelmed or misunderstood, Jay’s analysis of young adult issues and advice for achieving success—both professionally and personally—will reassure and motivate.

To buy: $10, amazon.com.


Getting There, by Gillian Zoe Segal

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Thirty industry influencers discuss essential career advice for young people about to enter the workforce. Most importantly, they focus on obstacles they faced at work, because those often were essential to their success. Mentors include businessman and politician Michael Bloomberg, trainer Jillian Michaels, and artist Jeff Koons.

To buy: $14, amazon.com.


Tiny Beautiful Things, by Cheryl Strayed

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Strayed’s weekly “Dear Sugar” column in The Rumpus is now in book form, with one of her most compassionate, thoughtful columns—titled “Tiny Beautiful Things”—leading the collection. Through a combination of her own experiences and honest advice, this book is filled with one-liners (“Be brave enough to break your own heart”) that all graduates will adopt as mantras.    

To buy: $9, amazon.com.


A Curious Mind, by Charles Fishman and Brian Grazer 

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Academy Award-winning producer Brian Grazer has talked to a host of accomplished people—from writers to actors to CEOs—to find out how creativity drives their work. These “curiosity conversations” helped him develop concrete advice for improving your professional and personal life.

To buy: $18, amazon.com.


Headstrong, by Rachel Swaby

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Women’s contributions to science and research are often overlooked, so Swaby profiles the achievements of 52 influential and innovative women who have proven that the sciences aren’t just for men. If you know a young woman looking to break into this male-heavy field, they’ll appreciate this book of innovators. 

To buy: $11, amazon.com.