You might think that shaving over your ingrown hairs will help them heal, but Bowe says it only irritates the follicle further. She recommends shaving around the inflamed hairs until they clear up. Can’t seem to kick them? Try dabbing on Fur Oil ($39, furyou.com). Specifically made for hair down there, it uses grapeseed and jojoba oils to soften and condition hair, tea tree oil to help keep pores clear, and clary sage seed oil to soothe and reduce inflammation.