Secrets of Staying (Happily) Married

Practical advice for making your union last, from people who know: couples whose relationships have stood the test of time.

First Comes Love

The Mysteries of Love
Ten things to know about love and romance, from why we fall hard to why we cheat.

What’s the Most Surprising Thing About Love?
Real Simple readers share insights into love’s delights and mysteries.

Relationship Insights

Hello, Stranger
Marriage had definite benefits, yes, though mystery and excitement may not have ranked among them. Then a chance meeting caused the author to look at her long-standing relationship with fresh eyes.

Break Out of Relationship Ruts
Do the same problems crop up over and over? Try these expert solutions.

10 Steps to Hiring a Babysitter

If you aren't employing the teenager down the block, here's what to look for in a babysitter.

• Network. Ask friends and neighbors for recommendations. Consider joining an online network such as Sitter City (sittercity.com) to browse available sitters (and nannies)—and access their references and background checks.
• Prepare a contact sheet. Include numbers for your cell phone, the family doctor, and all emergency care. Write down allergies and other important medical information.

  Related: The Ultimate Family Contact Sheet

• Schedule interviews. Meet with candidates and ask about his or her qualifications, including any CPR or first-aid training. (American Red Cross branches offer babysitter’s training courses for $25 to $80.) Discuss the amount of money you’re offering.

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