Preparation

• done!Pick a date.

  Showers should be held about two weeks to two months before the wedding. Earlier is better.

• done!Compile a guest list.

  As the host, you should set the number of guests you're comfortable inviting. If the shower isn't a surprise, consult with the bride about whom to include.

• done!Choose a theme.

  But only if you wish.

  Related: 5 Wedding Shower Ideas
• done!Determine the location.

  It could be your home or a nearby venue.

• done!Buy or make an invitation.

  Is the shower a surprise? Be sure to clearly state that. You may also want to include registry information.

Four to Six Weeks Before the Shower

• done!Send invitations.

• done!Decide on decorations and centerpieces.

  One idea: Fill Champagne glasses with jelly beans in complementary flavors (coconut and pineapple, lemon and lime)—edible proof that two together can be better than each alone.

• done!Plan a menu, if necessary.

  For a light lunch, try sweet pea soup, tea sandwiches, and lemon squares.

  Related: Sweet Pea and Mint Soup
• done!Prepare an activity.

  You could assemble a "bow hat," yes, but think about other options. Consider hiring a fortune-teller or a tarot card reader, or even giving everyone temporary tattoos.

  Related: 5 Bridal Shower Games

The Week Before the Shower

• done!Buy a gift.

  A good rule of thumb: Spend no less than $30 and no more than $50.

The Week of the Shower

• done!Shop for and prepare food, if necessary.

The Day of the Shower

• done!Make a gift-opening area.

  Under the guest of honor's seat, place scissors, large trash bags, a notebook and a pen to record gifts and their givers, and sticky labels to help keep similar gifts (like platters or glassware) straight.

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