Top 24 Wedding Etiquette Questions
How Do I Deal With Guests Who Ask to Bring Kids Even After We’ve Made It Clear They're Not Invited?
You have to nip this in the bud. Call the guest (even if they’ve contacted you through another medium, like email) and kindly, but firmly explain that the invitation was just for the adults and that you hope they can still attend. Don’t make exceptions—it’s not fair to other guests who respect your wishes. You can, however, invite the flower girl and the ring bearer without being hypocritical.