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Top 24 Wedding Etiquette Questions

Do I Need to Invite Someone I Casually Mentioned the Wedding to?

Talking about the wedding is okay, but don’t extend an invitation unless you know a formal invitation will follow. It’s impolite to uninvite someone, even if it was a verbal commitment. If the topic arises, you can diplomatically skirt around the issue by saying you haven’t finalized the guest list.

Next: I’m Paying for the Wedding Myself, How Can I Tell My Parents I Don’t Want to Invite Certain People?
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