The Host

Consider yourself the evening’s conductor. Sit close enough to the kitchen that you can clear plates, change courses, and uncork wine without disturbing people. It’s also the host’s job to manage problem guests.
Seat Next to: The kitchen, the Introvert, the Diva.
Avoid: A cohost.

“Your guests will take cues from you. If you’re laughing, talking to people, and having a good time, they will, too.”
—Sue Fox, author of Etiquette for Dummies (For Dummies, $22, www.amazon.com).