Problem: Looking Too Posed

Solution: “Engage the photographer in a conversation about some topic you both may find of interest,” says photographer Michael Calas. If your mind is focused on something other than the photo, you’ll appear less rigid. You can also lean against something, interact with a pet or a child, or intertwine your arms with someone else’s. Also, never keep your hands right by your sides, says New York Institute of Photography dean Chuck DeLaney. Clasp them in the front or in the back, or hold on to a glass or your eyeglasses to help relax your body.