Bridal showers are lively events with many different themes, social backgrounds, and gift possibilities. It isn't surprising that brides and their friends are a bit baffled by wedding showers. Should there be games? Do you have to bring a gift — and if so, how much should you spend? Does the bride need to wear a funny hat made of bows?

The first step toward clarity is to forget the word "shower" for a while. Cast aside old expectations and those dainty tea sandwiches. Whether you're a bride, a maid of honor, or a family member, you should ask yourself: Who are you and what do you like to do? Answer those questions and then decide how to go about planning this party. The main thing to keep in mind is that showers come in a lot of price ranges: the cost of throwing one should be spread among the party hosts (usually the bridal party), but guests are guests, and therefore shouldn't be asked to pay to attend.

Find the perfect shower for you (or your favorite bride-to-be):

Bowling Shower

Yoga Shower

Spa Shower

Wine And Cheese-Tasting Shower

Craft Shower