You want the words spoken on your big day to resonate with you and your guests so choose your officiant with care. Meet in advance and ask about her experience and credentials. Get a feel for her style and her views on what you have in mind. Know if you’ll meet again before the ceremony and what her fee includes.

Whether you write your own vows or rely on your officiants words of wisdom, use this checklist to help you design a ceremony you’ll cherish. Click on the icon above to download the worksheet.