What surprises you most about your adult life?

No alarms or bells go off when I’m about to make a huge mistake. It just happens.

Most useless invention?

It was a reusable to-do list: a dry-erase board with the days of the week on it. Last time I looked, my kids were using it as a ramp for their Hot Wheels.

What makes you laugh?

My budget.

Bath or shower?

My husband and I installed a Jacuzzi in our bathroom, and we’re convinced that sitting in it and talking once a week saved our marriage.

If you could change careers now without consequences or financial loss, what would you switch to?

I’m not sure. But whatever it is, I’d like to develop a cult following.

What was your most embarrassing moment?

I was out with one of my sons once, and he asked a woman if she was a man.

How often do you exercise?

Whenever my husband’s looking.

The big decision I’m currently wrestling with is…

How much energy should I put into grooming and getting into shape at this point in my life? So many people depend on me for so many things. It’s very difficult to set aside time to work on my body. I know my husband would love it, and I’d like it, too. But is it worth the added stress right now?

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