If I knew then what I know now...

I'd have smiled more, worried less, and worn sexier clothing.

My life would be simpler if...

I possessed instruction manuals for all the people in it.

Bikini or thong?

Bikinis that are large enough to cradle my ample fanny.

What's the nicest thing that anyone has ever said to you?

My husband said that he noticed how hard I work at being a good person.

What was your most embarrassing moment?

When my bra padding leaped onto the dance floor while I was having a little too much fun at a wedding reception.

What's your favorite place in the whole world?

My bed.

Biggest waste of time?

Arguing with a child. Once you start, you've lost the battle.

What surprises you most about your adult life?

I'm happy with a life that's drastically different from the one I eagerly anticipated as a child.

The big decision I'm currently wrestling with is...

Should I trade my freelance writing and consulting career for a traditional, dependable executive job?

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