Order 2 loaves of garlic bread (ask for it split lengthwise, rather than cut into slices), a small container of Bolognese or marina sauce, and 1 order each of meatballs and chicken or eggplant Parmesan. Slice 1 large fresh tomato, if desired, and thinly slice a handful of fresh basil leaves. Put everything in pretty bowls or on platters and let guests custom make the grinders they crave.

Serves: 4 to 6 as a main course.