Tibetans write their prayers on flags and let the wind carry the words into the world. Communicate your prayers or sentiments or the names of those you love by shining light on them. Write or print them on a piece of parchment, wrap the parchment around a clear glass votive, and secure it with a drop of sealing wax (shown). Every time you light the candle, you'll remind yourself of what you hold dear. Glass votives, $1.50, Illuminations, 800-226-3537.