What Do You Do When You Really Need a Break?
Real Simple readers share how they like to take a time-out.
In a TubI send my husband out to play with the boys, brew myself a pot of tea, assemble a small plate of goodies, collect a few magazines (including yours), and head to the tub. I settle in until the water's cold, or until my husband comes home―whichever is first.
I sit in a steamy tub laced with fresh sprigs of rosemary from the garden.
On the WaterI get up early and go to the beach. No one else is there except one or two fishermen. Listening to the waves washes the stresses of the workweek away. I usually leave before lunch, before the crowds begin to show up.
Deborah J. Clark
I go sailing with my brother. Most of the time I like to sail the boat, but there are other times when I let someone else take over so I can simply hang my legs over the edge and watch the water go by.
With FriendsI enjoy inviting some friends over―the ones you can have fun cooking with―and make a very casual, very simple, but incredibly good dinner. Everyone brings their dogs and children, and no one cares what chaos ensues or how anything turns out. We just enjoy spending time with each other, having a great meal, and catching up.
I go visit friends who have a house full of children. It is so noisy there and so much is happening at once that I cannot continue thinking about my problems. I gather the kids together and take them for a walk at sunset. While they're playing in the park, I breathe the clean air.
Lanai City, HI
In the GrooveSoft, slow, fast, jazzy, country, classical―I can lose myself in all music. Sometimes unwinding means mellowing out, other times it means twisting, jumping, and jiving. Music brings back memories and helps create new ones.
Carole Tedesko Nemec
On a SwingSitting on my swing, which is under a large tree, I can gaze at the fish and water lilies in my pond, and watch the dragonflies and butterflies zipping from flower to flower on the water hyacinths. It is so peaceful, quiet, and relaxing.
Goose Creek, SC
In the GardenWeeding the garden is quiet, earthy, and constructive. It takes my mind off other matters. Who says unwinding has to be nonconstructive?
I love to throw on some old clothes, grab some shears and twine, and putter around in my kitchen garden. Being amongst all that greenery helps me forget about the world outside my little picket fence.
In the YardMy favorite place is outdoors. I like to listen to the birds in the woods or go for a walk. I let the dogs run and find myself giggling at them trying to catch chipmunks. Our two-year-old daughter and her older brothers find the most interesting things to play with, and as long as they don't put them in their pockets for me to find on laundry day, it's wonderful.
My two daughters are 18 months apart, and a great break for me has been to go out and mow the lawn when my husband gets home from work. My neighbors think I'm strange, but it's a good way to drown out demands, yet be productive and get a bit of exercise.
On the RoadI ride my motorcycle to unwind. The wind in my face relaxes me. I usually don't have a particular destination in mind, but go wherever I please and stop whenever I choose.
Winthrop Harbor, IL
We clip articles on any place or event that's close enough to go to for a day or weekend. When the urge strikes, we grab the clips and jump in the car. We have spent an afternoon by a waterfall eating apples and cheese, and have been to the best pizza restaurant in the state, and to an exhibition of Egyptian mummies. Each adventure has been a wonderful surprise and takes us a million mental miles from the house and yardwork, jobs, and problems. We now have friends who ask to borrow the clips for the weekend!
In the StacksI go to a bookstore, grab some tea, and hang out in the stacks for a couple of hours. Being around all of those books immediately relaxes me and puts me in a good mood. The books surrounding me hold such amazing possibilities.
A couple of years ago I bought a porch swing and hung it in the garden. In the spring I watch new leaves bud on the trees. In the summer I go out early and let the sun drench my face. In the fall I cuddle in a blanket as birds fly south.
West Jordan, UT