Etiquette Questions, Answered: Holidays and Gifts
When Is It Appropriate to Give Money?
Q. If I don’t know someone’s taste, may I give cash in lieu of a present?
A. I wish my parents, aunts, and uncles had given me envelopes filled with greenbacks when I was 16. Certainly the gift of cash is more appropriate to give to some people than others. The tweens and teens on your list will prefer it over any T-shirt or book that you pick out. Gift cards are a safe option for a child’s teacher or a minister. For parents, siblings, and close friends, stick to actual gifts; you might offend them if you slip a few Andrew Jacksons into their stockings.