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Maid of Honor Duties Checklist

She's the one fluffing the train, fixing makeup, and (probably) planning the bachelorette party. Here's a pre-wedding to-do list for the woman you've chosen as your MOH.

  • Plan the shower. And, if the bride wants one, the bachelorette party.
  • Spread the word. Let folks know (especially before the bridal shower) where the bride and groom are registered.
  • Keep a record of gifts. The MOH should jot down what presents the bride receives at her shower, and who gave them to her.
  • Do some dress shopping. Go with the bride to look for her gown, if she asks, and help shop for the bridesmaids’ dresses.
  • Coordinate the bridesmaid duties. As the “chief” bridesmaid, the MOH should schedule dress fittings and carry out any other tasks assigned by the bride.
  • Be the bride’s right-hand woman. Give her help where needed: Address the invitations, write out the place cards, weigh in on the cake, assemble the reception play list. . . .
  • Say a few words. Prepare a toast to the bride and groom to be given at the rehearsal dinner.

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