Banish a Bad Mood in 15 Minutes
Pull yourself out of a funk, pronto, with these 3 surprisingly simple steps.
Decode Your MoodAsk yourself these key questions to figure out what’s wrong.
- What’s really bugging me? You’re irritable and sad, but you’re not sure why. “Think about what happened earlier in the day or in the week,” says Larina
Kase, author of Anxious 9 to 5: How to Beat Worry, Stop Second Guessing Yourself, and Work with Confidence (New Harbinger, $15, barnesandnoble.com). “Keep going back until you hit on the most upsetting thing, something that resonates with you.” This will help you address
the underlying problem rather than just focusing on the latest snafu in your life.
- Am I avoiding something? It’s easier to pin your bad mood on stalled traffic than on, say, your stalled romantic life. If you still don’t feel that
you’ve arrived at the root problem, ask yourself if there’s something big going on that you’re unwilling to address. Is there
someone―your new love, for instance, or your best friend―whom you’re reluctant to show anger toward? Is there a nagging problem
that has been building for months that you’ve been hoping would simply go away? Merely acknowledging the bigger issue will
take some pressure off.
- Could it be more than one thing? Say you had a bad fight with your sister. It might be a simple case of cause and effect: You argued, and now you’re angry. But the fight might have been aggravated by a problem you’re dealing with at work or compounded by the fact that your father is sick. In those instances, you might be angry but also feel sad or hopeless. It’s common to have multiple emotions cropping up at the same time. When you have two or more pressing problems bringing you down, try to address them one by one.
Next: Calm Down
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